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How to Know if a Guy Likes You
Probably the best way to know if
a guy likes you is to simply ask him, but we all know that can be a challenge.
So, here are a few clues to help you work out if he likes you as much as
you like him.
Steps
1. Examine
his body language.
If he likes you, you may see that he smiles at you, leans towards you and
also looks at you a lot.
2. Notice
his eye contact. If he likes you, he'll try to catch your eye and hold
it. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him (or vice versa).
If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second
longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then
there is something there.
- His pupils may dilate if he likes
you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as
acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
When a guy likes you he will make
pampam epal pansin to you
- "Listen
to what he's saying". If he likes you, and he's nervous, he'll probably
start talking about himself. Many times, guys feel the need to prove themselves-
especially if you talk about another guy in his company.
Be aware of touching. He might
put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens
to touch yours, or he may hug
you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you.
5. Watch
for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if
you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest
bands or artist for you to listen
to. Another example, if you play sports he may ask to play against you
just to show off that he's good at something you both like and then also
have a reason to give you compliments as well.
6. Notice
the way he treats you - does he playfully tease you, or call you names,
just to try and get your attention? It's natural for a guy to tease when
he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if
they aren't attracted to them. Also, keep in mind that some guys simply
will not tease you.
7. Check
for signs of nervousness Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting,
looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good
signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making
an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name,
does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
8. Smile
- a big smile
in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of
the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you
and to flash his smile in your direction then flash a quick smile back
to avoid blushing.
9. Pay
attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they
might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you,
or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your
presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that
suggests they know something that you don't? Maybe when they dare him in
games of truth and dare, they always dare him to do something to you. If
so, then there's a good chance that they know that he really does like
you.
10. Be
open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you - it can ruin the
situation if he hasn't got any opportunity to do so, for example if your
friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
11. Pay
attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often,
watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name
to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example,
if you say something, and he replies with "ha ha, nice, so-and-so"
it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with
"ha ha, nice." The second doesn't mean he doesn't like you, but
using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
12. Notice
his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions
and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he'll just forget
about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back
to the question until you answer, then he may like you - but if the topic
is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
13. Notice
these tell-tale signs:
- If he wants to talk to you all the
time,
- If you turn around and you catch
him looking at you,
- If he starts acting nicer when you're
around him,
- If he says "yes"
to all the things you ask him to do,
- If he treats you differently than
others,
- If he tries to sit next to you at
work, in class, at lunch, or play on a team with you during Gym/Recess
- If he looks at you a lot every time
you smile or laugh,
- If he acts immaturely around you,
like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
- If he seems to always want to hang
out with you,
- If he gets closer with a body
part, or if he tries to touch you (e.g. when you touch him he might touch
you back),
- If you catch him peeking at you
and he smiles,
- If he tries to make you laugh,
- If he tries to copy you,
- If he walks up to you out of the
blue and hugs you,
- If he tries to keep you in view
for as long as possible or tends to look around and stop when he finds
you,
- If he subtly looks at you but makes
it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
- If he constantly calls you and uses
an excuse -such as What was the homework?
- If he goes out of his way to talk
to you (e.g. if he goes to the other side of your school to talk to you
because he knows you have a class there),
- If you block him on instant messenger
and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you (note: this
may be considered a form of stalking)
- If you see him staring at something
by turning his head 90 degrees and when you look at him he smiles and turns
away, when this happens, check his pupils, he might have actually been
staring at you
- If he invites you to his birthday
party or any kind of party,
- If you flirt
with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically
flirts back, (but don't flirt with them just to find out if he likes you)
- If he talks to you and wants to
know how you're doing,
- If he is nicer or tries to talk
to your friends,
- If he asks about you to your friends
when you're not around,
- If he asks you to dance
with him at the dance.
- If he walks past you and tries to
look cool so you can glance at him
- If a guy tries to show you things
he got that are somewhat expensive (e.g. a cellphone) or he tries to impress
you,
- If you notice when he gets out of
class and starts to walk a little slower than usual, then he's trying to
give you the opportunity to talk to him!
- If he always talks to you there's
a great chance that he likes you.
- If he feels so awful letting you
down that he lies.
- If he would do anything to spend
more time talking to you (e.g. if he talks to/texts you until 2:30 in the
morning).
- If you realize that he ignores
you when your looking but when you look out of the corner of your eye,
he turns back around to look back at you,
- If he's talking to his friends and
nodding like he's paying attention but you realize he's not, he's actually
been staring at you the whole time!
- If he walks down the hallway (at
school) and he "accidentally" bumps into you/touches you/moves
your chair/pulls your hair etc.
- If he ignores you almost completely.
For example, when you call his name he does nothing, but when your friend
doess he pays attention. This is because he might be embarrassed or not
sure how to approach you. Be careful, though, he might ignore because he
just flat-out doesn't like you!
Watch his body language! Whenever
you are in a group of people with the one guy you think likes you, look
at his shoulders - believe it or not, sub-consciously the guy will not
want you to think he is ignoring you so his shoulders will be pointing
at you, he may be talking to somebody else but his shoulders will be towards
your direction, and then when you go to talk, he will usually immediately
turn to you to listen.
15. Watch
his actions! If someone else is picking on you does he rush to defend
you or get revenge on that person? Either he thinks of you as a great friend
or he really likes you!
16. Where
he goes! If you see him go some places that you usually go often and
whenever you go there and he passes by or goes there that means he likes
you. Or whenever you go you see him or go across him for no reason. And
he will talk to you a lot in gym,lunch,music or many more!
17. Watch
his actions around other girls and see if he treats you differently. If
he always wants to talk to you or just likes to hang around you.
18. If
he starts a conversation, try to push it on. If he likes you, one thing
may lead to another, and he will ask you out.
Tips
- Ask what type of girls he likes.
If he describes you in a way, then he likes you.
- Be
nice! If you are mean
to him or joke on him to be
funny and stuff like that
he gets annoyed. Boys like it when their ego is boosted, NOT lowered.
- If you flirt with another guy when
he can see you, look at him to see his emotions. You can tell a lot from
a guy if you try that and make sure he can see you. You do not want to
flirt with one of his friends. It will cause problems and might even ruin
your chances of even getting with the guy! (Don't flirt with the other
guy if you don't like him.)
- If he tries to talk to you, let
him.
- Always be
yourself! He might like
the real you more than the diva you try to be.
- Always let him be open to you.
- If he looks at you a lot, he may
be watching to see if you glance at him. Sometimes guys can be sneaky and
hide their face behind a book or something while looking at you so you
don't notice him looking at you.
- If you like him, Look at him
a lot. He will take that as a sign that you like him. If he likes you,
he will NOTICE that you look at him a lot and may approach you later.
- If you are hanging out with friends
and the guy lingers around, he may be trying to catch you alone. Tell your
friends to go on ahead, that you need to do something. If he likes you
and thinks you like him, he will approach you!
- If he looks at you and you catch
him looking at you, hold eye contact with him for a couple of seconds and
then look away.
- Dances are a great place to test
the waters! During a slow dance
he might ask you to dance. Pay attention while you're dancing - do you
look at each other, then smile
and look away? Does he seem happy to be dancing with you? This is a very
good sign! If you ask him to dance and he says yeah it is a good sign,
but be aware that some guys just say yes to any girl because they don't
want her to be offended.
- Blush when he is around once in
a while, see if he notices, or blushes back. If he blushes the first time,
he may like you, or may not. If he blushes a second time, he most definitely
likes you!
- If he seems comfortable talking
to you about other girls, he probably does not like you in "that way".
(Either that, or he is trying to make you jealous, which might mean that
he likes you but doesn't reflect too well on his character). Or he could
be trying to see if you like him!
- There could be a chance that if
he ignores you at times that he does like you, and is just intimidated
- perhaps defending himself thinking that you don't like him that
way, and thus if he rejects you first his ego remains intact.
- If his friends look at you then
that means that your crush was talking about you to his friends.
- If the guy you like seems to: Always
get in your way when you look at something, want to say something to you
but doesn't, blushes/smile when you look at him or says he "accidentally"
comes to your house then there's a pretty good chance he likes you.
- If the guy you like(or you think
likes you)is around a friend and the friend asks him if he likes you and
the guy says no, don't think that's so. He could just be saying no because
he wants to hide his true feelings for you! There's still hope!
Warnings
- If you look at him a lot, he might
look at you just to see if you're looking at him and not because he likes
you.
- If he starts to flirt with you when
he's already in a relationship and says he'll break
up with her for you, don't
buy it! Chances are, a random new girl will pop up and he'll do the same
with her that he did to you.
- Some guys may act a little like
they like you, too, but sometimes they don't. He may just act like that
if he knows that you like him [so he doesn't hurt your feelings] or maybe
he's trying to make another girl jealous. If you feel like your situation
is like this, just stop. Understand that he doesn't find you interesting.
There will be more guys!
- Watch out for the subtle guys. If
he asks you something that could potentially be a date but you're not really
sure, make sure it's clear before you agree to it. It can be uncomfortable
when one of you thinks you're on a date and one of you thinks you're not.
- One thing that you definitely need
to look out for: if he's just trying to get to know you better, or if he's
just using you, it might seem like he likes you, but sometimes he could
be messing around.
- It is a sign when he has a friend
talk to you all the time or if he get nervous when he talks to you for
the first time. You know what that means. He may try to act cool and over
do it, so try to accept everything he says, and if you don't understand
part of it, just ask him to explain in more detail while still appearing
interested.
- Don't try to convince yourself
that he doesn't like you, either. He could have some really deep feelings
for you, and if you try to convince yourself that he doesn't like you,
you could just end up hurting both yourself and him, and then you'll regret
not knowing what could have been.
- The wrong kind of boy might say
he likes you without meaning it; if this is the case, he probably wants
to see how far you would go with him, for any of those activities (whatever
they may be) themselves and for bragging rights among his friends.
- Always be careful for those guys
who like to tease your heart. Some may just pretend to flirt with you or
tell you they like you, just to hurt you. Some guys are just jerks, but
you'll always find someone who loves you just as much as you love
them. <3
- Make sure he's not the kind of guy
who has a different girlfriend every week. In other words, make sure
that he's not a player. You could get seriously hurt. Especially if
he is your first boyfriend.
- Don't have a friend go and ask him/her
if they like you. Thats really random and kind of weird. That will just
make the girl/guy think that you are desperate and that you are really
shy. TAKE CHARGE just talk to him/her and hopefully it will turn out for
the best(:
- If it's your best guy friend that
you're talking about here you might want to think about it or think what
it might do to your friendship if you guys started dating.
- See if the special things he does
for you is also common between him and other women. It might not be that
he's a "player," but just that he shows affection for friends
in a way that might seem special to you...but is just a way he appreciates
people in general.
- Sometimes, a guy will be too shy
to admit he likes you. Remember, actions speak louder than words. If he
says he doesn't like you, but his actions say otherwise, go with it. Flirt
back until he's comfortable.
- Don't have your friends come up
to us and ask us if we like you. A guy will usually want to tell you he
likes you himself, and if your friend asks if he likes you, he might say
no or deflect the question without saying no. It's nothing against you,
it's just that we don't want you to hear that fact from anybody except
us--it makes us feel (and look) weak.
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