anu ang interpretation ninyo dito?

The Death card reversed suggests
that the sun may be going down on a relationship, and you may not be ready
for the next step. You might be avoiding issues in order to play it safe
or maintain the status quo, but tension about losing control or facing
the reality may be mounting. The truth is that it doesn't have to go badly;
in fact, you may be surprised at the breakthrough or feeling of liberation
that could come once you embrace the coming changes with hope.

Life...

1. Who are you currently texting? - my YUAP
Family
2. Are you comfortable with answering this personal questions? - oo naman
3. Have you ever cried and didn't know why? oo
4. When is te last time you were truly happy with your life? before ako
maging employee ng SGV
5. Where was your default picture taken? uhm sa The Arena, San Juan
7. What is your favorite color? Yellow
8. What do you do when you have a bad day? - nananapak ako. =))
9. Have you ever envisioned your own wedding? - dati...
10. When is the last time you personally made someone else cry? - di ko
alam...pero siguro pag namatay ako. =))
11. The last time you were kissed, did you have someone else on your mind?
- wala...never been kissed.
12. Who sounds just like you? - ewan ko...chipmunks daw... hahaha
13. Do you believe exes can really ever be "just friends"? -
ay no comment =))
14. What are you wearing on your feet? - shoes
15. Last thing you said? - PAKSHET =))
16. Would you be able to date someone who had a kid with someone else?
- ay depende...
17. What have you learned recently? - that i'm too bitchy...hahaha =))
18. Do you make your bed every day?- uu nman.
19. Are you too shy to tell people when you're developing feelings for
them? - ay...hindi na lang ako nakakahinga pag katabi ko na sila...
20. Do you use the internet or television more? - internet
21. Who messaged you last? - i don't know...where ba? email, multiply or
friendster.
22. Do you currently hate someone? - yes...myself...for being so stupid.
=))
23. What are your plans tomorrow or tonight? - matulog
24. If you could pack up and leave your life now to move away, would you?
- OO naman... isang MALAKING OO....
25. Have you ever done any acting onstage? uu. daming beses na.
26. Do you like being in pictures? - ay oo...CAMWHORE KAYA AKO. =))
27. Do you cry easily?- di naman... =)) bungisngis kaya ako.
28. Have you ever been more attracted to a significant other's sibling?
- ay... hmm...
29. Where is your phone? - hawak ko.
30. Are you a romantic person? - di masyado...
31. Do you tend to fall for people easily? - depende... pero proven and
tested...basta tigre...madali ako mahulog... =)) rarr
32. Which person in your family are you the most like?- mama
33. Are you quick to start a fight? - ay hindi
34. What WAS your favorite subject in school? - college - feasibility studies,
Highschool - Music, Grade School - PE
35. Do your parents really know YOU? - actually, ngaun, hindi na
36. Have you ever felt invincible? nope
37. Do you always get along with your sibling(s)?
38. Would you rather be cheated with, or on? cheat with... hahahaha =))
rarr
39. Do you feel like you've got some growing up to do? Now? OO.
40. Who is one friend you could tell anything to? JL =))

Love Terrorists and the Commitment Phobe

The beginning of a relationship with a CP (commitment-phobic person) can be escalating (to say the least!) The CP chases you with such intense and total admiration that we begin to feel just so damned good about OURSELVES that we are actually floating on air! This euphoric stage sets the scene for the devastating 'crash' that is bound to happen.

Unfortunately, when we feel so euphoric by the actions of the CP in the 'pursuing stage' we tend to see the CP as Omni-important. The more power we give them, the harder we fall.

When we give the CP this power over us, we may react in two adverse ways when evidence of their commitmentphobia surfaces...

1. The CP pulls away or withdraws from us, making us 'CRASH': When the CP pulls away from us we become frantic, wondering what we did wrong. So, we try even harder to prove our worthiness in order to gain back their love and admiration.

2. We become the 'enabler': We make up excuses for the CP, live in denial, or take direct blame for their withdrawal from us. We do not hold the CP accountable for their actions, but instead we try to hide the reality of their actions from ourselves. We refuse to hear the CP when they tell us to 'go away', choosing, instead, to focus only on their 'come here' statements or actions. We make up excuses for the CPs behavior, absolving the CP from all responsibility!

We become addicted to our CPs. We are now CP Addicts.

The harder the CP Addict tries to recall, or recover, that 'euphoric rush' they experienced in the beginning stage of the relationship, the more likely they 'fail' and feel defeated. That's because the more you go 'after' the CP, the more you will be rejected.

What happens next is what I call the 'hook'; the CP does, from time to time, 'relinquish' (briefly) to us. The CP will let down their defenses and insinuate – either through words or actions – that they want to be with us. This, in turn, gives the CP Addict a 'fix' on their much sought after 'euphoric rush'. They get their high. They feel good. Satiated. They soon learn that their relentless pursuit to 'win back the CP' (their drug) pays off. But, too, they learn very quickly that it only pays off for a little while. They feel that euphoric feeling of hitting a 'mini jackpot' - and believe that - if they only keep it up - the big 'jackpot' is just around the corner!

"The CP has a unique way of making you feel that 'maybe', 'in the future', 'somewhere down the road' ... which keeps you 'hooked' to him by hope and trapped by the possibility ('maybe, if I'm just more patient, less demanding, a better woman, etc...')"

THE HOOK REVISITED (are you a Love Terrorist?)

Nothing is more intriguing than having a 'cause'. And nothing is more addictive than having a cause that is also a HUGE challenge to succeed at. A challenge creates action. It is invigorating. Both of these aspects together are what keep us attached to the CP. The 'cause' and the 'challenge'.

It is the intrigue and the implied-promise of 'winning over adversity', and the 'thrill of the chase', that keeps us compelled to watch thrillers and action-packed movies. We sit on the edge of our seats, glued to our television sets or movie screens. The same rings true in our real lives, also. The intensity of the battle to 'win' brings an almost erotic sense of pleasure to our dull and drab ordinary lives.

Yes, we may say we want a quiet and peaceful life, but when things calm down and settle into a routine we go out of our minds with boredom. This isn't what we wanted after all! We want thrills! We want action! We want to feel the adrenaline rush through our veins! We want to feel alive! We want to feel challenged! AND WE WANT TO WIN! What good is a challenge if we lose? Losing makes us feel defeated, less than, unworthy ... not good enough. Failures. And who wants to be a failure that didn't measure up? Nobody! Especially not you and I, right? We want to be winners. We want to be 'better'. We want to save face and ego. We are poor-losers.

So we thrive on the 'cause' and the 'challenge'. We need 'cause' and 'challenge' to prove ourselves good enough, strong enough, worthy enough. And we get so caught up sometimes in our cause that we can't see the forest for the trees. We become so lost and so obsessed in the 'cause' and the 'challenge', that we can't see clearly. We lose sight of and can't see anymore what the original purpose of our cause was. We feel so challenged that we have lost all of our rational judgment and now we simply exist to overcome, and conquer, the challenge.

We are 'love terrorists', and we will resort to any measure feasible to make our point.

We forget about 'love' - mistakenly assuming it is still there for it was there at the beginning of our cause, wasn't it? Unbeknownst to us, though, is that over time the challenge has subtly taken over, masking itself as 'love'. Could we possibly have been so caught up in the 'challenge' that we mistakenly thought the outcome we sought was still based on love, and not on winning our cause? Could the 'love' we once felt been subtly overshadowed by the task at hand (getting to commitment), until the challenge of reaching our goal of commitment actually replaced the love, and became the real reason for our cause? Could the original dream of being ‘hand-in-hand, happily ever after’ actually morphed into just a need to win the ‘getting to commitment’ battle?

I was a Love Terrorist. I battled my 'ex' for commitment. Big time! I resorted to Love Terrorism. I had to win my cause at all costs. And my cause was to gain back his love and get to commitment. Period. I mistakenly thought that his commitment to me would recapture the ‘high’ I felt in the pursuing stage of the relationship. After all, this man's love for me was so intense in the beginning...

Tigress, the Love Terrorist...
....Gawd, how that man worshipped me! He called me every hour we were apart, and when we were together he sat there mesmerized by my being, staring adoringly at my face and holding my hand non-stop. I had to actually pull it away from him at times just to take a drink, or brush my hair off my face. He was absolutely 'twitterpated' by my presence. And I didn't even like him at first (a common occurrence with us CP Addicts): he had to work very hard at getting me to warm up to him. But once he did, I was trapped. It felt so good to be loved so deeply ... to be with someone who thought you were the most exquisite and perfect creature to ever grace this planet. I could do no wrong, and I relished in his attention and his adoration. Mmmmmmm, what a wonderful feeling to be so loved!

However, things started changing ... slowly - so slowly and subtly that I wasn't even aware of it. In the beginning this guy loved me so immensely and I had become so sure of and secure in that love that I didn't even realize that it had changed - until I woke up one day and found myself on the 'begging end of the relationship'. Begging for his time, his attention, his commitment, his love, his company. I was surprised at this revelation! When did all this occur? Where was I when all this came about? What the heck happened? What did I do to chase his love away?

And so...

....Let the battle begin...

....so in enters my little Acts of Love Terrorism. And my little Love Terrorist Plots. I was completely without awareness and direction, focusing only on my cause.

And battle I did. I became the perfect, ‘can’t-live-without’ woman: understanding, doting, and pleasing. And when that didn’t work I became demanding; whining; begging; threatening; sulky; intimidating - and I totally exposed every ugly inner-devil lurking below my seemingly normal exterior. I was horrible ... I was horrible because I felt horrible! My self-esteem had crashed! What could I have done to turn this loving man away? This man who worshipped the very ground I walked on? I (falsely) assumed that, no matter what it was that I did, it must have been very horrific to turn a man who worshipped me into a man that couldn't wait to get away from me. I thought that I most surely must be the biggest jerk on the Earth! I took total credit for his sudden rejection.

Spurred into action by the need to regain my Dashing Hunter, I (now the ex-Hunted) had become The Hunter!

And so continued my 'battle'. The more I threatened, demanded, got in his face, and accused - the more he distanced himself from me. So, I tried other tactics. I went out to the bars and bragged to him incessantly about how many men came up to me, came on to me, or asked me to dance. I pointed out that other men wanted me, hoping he would feel threatened enough to commit to me before another stole me away from him, or (in the least) hoping he would sit up and take notice of how wonderful I was.

I tried the ‘I’d-make-a-perfect-wife' thing, too. I cleaned the house to House and Garden centerfold perfection; I painstakingly applied cosmetics and styled my hair. I donned sexy outfits and fixed the most scrumptious of meals. I did his laundry, his chores. I did the shopping. I paid the bills. I was PERFECT, PERFECT, PERFECT. Sick, huh?

But that was all part of my battle. See, I figured if the threats didn't work, and trying to make him jealous was an absolute waste of time, I might just as well let him see how totally awesome I was. How perfect. What a great wife I would be. I smothered him with attention. I never, ever asked for anything in return, lest I scare him away by putting too many demands on him. I did it all. He did nothing. I was the relationship!

The only thing I didn't think to do was the one thing that might have worked (for me) ... release him back to himself and get back to living my life.

But, the point is, I became so lost - so caught up in 'winning' him, that I didn't even realize until many months later that I wasn't even in love with him anymore (if, indeed, I ever was!). In fact, he was an a**hole! However, I didn't see that at the time because I was so consumed with the cause, and with the challenge to win him that the 'here after' part never even occurred to me.

Are you a Love Terrorist?

If so, trust that your life may be already predestined. Stop attempting to control fate and learn to appreciate, and relish in, the peace that comes with Letting Go and Letting Be.

By Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru

http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/love-terrorists-and-the-commitment-phobe-365297.html

how to get over your ex

If a person has an experience that is physically, mentally or emotionally traumatic, the mind deals with the situation in one of several different ways. Some people abuse alcohol, food, drugs or other substances to numb the feelings they have inside. Others mourn for a short period of time, restore their faith, balance and sanity, and somehow miraculously move on. But the rest of us left over, usually those who are very analytical and logical, have trouble processing deeply troubling situations. So, we replay the painful situation over and over again in our minds, searching for an answer. But the problem is, the answer cannot be found in the rational mind, because the problem is on an emotional plain. Therefore, the solution has to come from the heart, which needs to be healed and restored. Here is the step by step process I have adapted to end obsessive thinking about an Ex:

Step 1:

Don't take anything your Ex ever said or did personally, because nothing your Ex ever said or did was about you. Even if your Ex downright blames you for everything that went wrong in your relationship, realize their statement is only coming from who they are, which has absolutely nothing to do with the person you are.

Step 2:

However, not taking your Ex personally is a two sided coin. If during the heat of an argument you react and tell your Ex what an idiot THEY are, and how everything is THEIR fault, then it has nothing to do with them. Your statements only reflect the kind of person you are, which is a person who likes to blame and judge. This has nothing to do with your Ex. Therefore, consciously make an effort to be the person you are, regardless of how your Ex is behaving. Make a list of all the qualities you admire in others, for example: kindness, confidence, compassion, and respect. Chances are you already possess the qualities within yourself. Be very careful not to make statements that don't reflect who you are, even when you may be tempted to give into the hurt and anger you feel.

Step 3

Release your judgments and opinions by becoming friends with Death. As morbid as this sounds, realize that in 100 years, you and your Ex will likely be dead, and nothing you ever fought about will be remembered. If your Ex has the obsessive need to be right and argue with you about everything, give in to their whim and say, "You are absolutely right." Not only will this reinforce your relationship with Death and save you a tremendous amount of personal power, your Ex will find it impossible to argue with you because you are giving the non-verbal message that it really doesn't matter. As one my favorite authors Wayne Dyer once said, "Have you ever noticed how hard it is to argue with someone who isn't obsessed with being right?"

Step 4:

If the hurt and anger is overwhelming, distance yourself from your Ex completely. And no matter what, get on your knees and pray for your Ex every morning. Pray that your Ex will be granted all of the health, wealth and happiness you wish for yourself. Even if you are not a religious person, or you don't believe in God, the act itself is liberating.

In twelve step programs, such as Alcoholics Anonymous, they are taught to pray for people they have a deep resentment towards. At first, you will not mean a word of the prayer. But if you say the prayer consistently for two weeks, you will come to genuinely mean it, and find that there is a part of you that realizes your Ex is just a human being, with their own imperfections, weaknesses and short comings. If you go deeper, you will realize your Ex may also be a very hurt and scared person - even if they outwardly seem very hostile, aggressive and manipulative. Of course, no matter what happened to your Ex in their childhood or even in their day to day life - it does not give them a reason to mistreat you. But by being aware of the fact that your Ex has a certain set of issues to deal with on their own time, it will help you replace the hurt and anger you feel with compassion and understanding.

Step 5:

Own your personal power. Because when you are who you are, regardless of the situation or circumstance that comes your way, then this transforms you into a very powerful person. This is the step that absolutely baffles your Ex, because by you being who you are, and not letting them get you down - it sends your Ex the non-verbal message that you are who you are and they are who they are. But most importantly, it tells your Ex that you are not going to take any of their crap! When you respond to your Ex's hostility with kindness, and your Ex's blame with compassion, it frustrates them to no end, because your Ex cannot get you to play their game.

Step 6:

Come to understand that you are doing all of this work for no other reason than to realize who you are, restore your sense of balance, and reclaim your personal power. If you do all of this work in order to manipulate your Ex, and make them want you back, your Ex will subconsciously sense your intentions, because at one point or another, you will slip and let your intentions be known without realizing it. When this happens, you will give all of your power back to your Ex, and will have to start all over again with Step 1.

Step 6 is often tricky, because if you master each step up to this point, your Ex may very well want to reconcile. At the very least, your Ex will begin responding to the kindness you send their way in a positive fashion. But regardless if you want to get back together with your Ex, just be friends, or just get over the obsessive thinking - remember your sole purpose is to realize who you are, restore your sense of balance, and reclaim your personal power. If you do all of this work just to manipulate your Ex into responding the way you want them to, it may work for a very short period of time. But I guarantee your Ex will pick up on the fact that your intentions are not genuine, and you will lose your personal power. Not only that, but when you genuinely become who you are, you attract the right kind of people to your life. And maybe your Ex is not the person you are meant to be with! And the only way you will know if you are meant to be with your Ex or anyone else is if you are genuinely who you are.

Step 7:

Forgive your Ex, no matter what they did or didn't do. Unfortunately, it may not be enough at this point to say, "I forgive my ex." And leave it at that. Forgiveness has little to do with words, and more to do with action. Before proceeding with this step, I recommend reading up on the topic of forgiveness, and reading heroic stories about the power of forgiveness. I once read a story about a woman whose daughter was brutally raped and murdered by a man that was eventually caught and sent to prison. As anyone can imagine, the woman spent years of her life in rage and obsession over what this man had done to her daughter. I am sure there are no words to express how much pain this woman was feeling. However, she somehow stumbled on a book entitled, The Course of Miracles and began reading about what the power of forgiveness could do for her. She started to pray for the man, and eventually sent him a letter, letting him know she had forgiven him for the actions he took against her daughter, even though she didn't condone his behavior. To make a long story short, the man wrote the woman back and apologized profusely. The woman felt compelled to see this young man in prison, and she held him as he cried during their first visit. To make a long story short, they became friends, and she became his number one advocate in attempts to release him from prison.

There are not a lot of people walking on the planet as courageous as this woman, but it is an extreme example of what is possible within each one of us. I thought about this woman before I reached out to my Ex with forgiveness in my heart. I sent a gift to my Ex and the woman my Ex left me for, which seemed to pale in comparison to this woman's story. Of course, it took me a little over a year to reach that point, and a lot of soul searching. To this day, I love my Ex with all of my heart on a platonic level. We live in two totally different cities, but still call and send each other emails on occasion as good friends.

I am also in a healthy relationship with someone I am deeply in love with. Next week will be our two year anniversary. I do not think I would be as happy and as deeply in love with this new person as I am now, had I not let go of the anger, bitterness, and resentment I once felt towards my Ex, which is another reason why forgiveness is so important.

A lot of people believe turning off your feelings for a person you once were in a romantic relationship with, or even hating them is a way to show that they are "over" the person. But I believe the exact opposite is true. When you are completely "over" a person, you really wish them nothing but the best - and you are totally detached emotionally from how they act or react. Another point to consider is the fact that love isn't real unless you loved your Ex for the person they are, not the person you wanted them to be. And just because the romantic relationship didn't work out, doesn't mean your Ex isn't a lovable person.

http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/how-to-get-over-your-ex-20231.html

pag bored na daw mag debit credit at sa mga walang magawa...:)

UNBELIEVABLE MATH
PROBLEM



Here is a math trick so unbelievable that it will stump you.

Personally I would like to know who came up with this and why that person


is not running the country.

Grab a calculator. (you won't be able to do this one in your Head)  



1. Key in the first three digits of your phone number (NOT the Area
code...  i.e. 0918 )


2. Multiply by 80

3. Add 1

4. Multiply by 250

5. Add  
to this  
the last 4 digits of your phone number

6. Add   to
this  the
last 4 digits of your phone number again.

7. Subtract 250

8. Divide number by 2



            Do you recognize the answer
??

BACKSTABBERS...

Isa lang masasabi ko...KUNG SINO MAN KAYO ANG NANINIRA...HELLO (EH NASANIBAN AKO NG KAPATID KO NA SI RAF) TAE KAYO!



SIRAAN NIYO AKO SA ARCHERS, SA BULLDOGS, SA EAGLES,


SA TAMARAWS, SA TIGERS, SA WARRIORS...ETO MASASABI KO


NASIRA NIYO NA AKO KINA JAMES MARTINEZ...WHO'S NEXT? JOREL CANIZARES?  GO, TIGNAN NATIN KUNG KAKAYANIN NIYO SI PALOS...

WAHAHAHAHA!!! NYAHAHAHAHA!!!!



SINIRA NIYO NA AKO SA EAGLES...O TAPOS...TAPOS NA RIN NAMAN KAMI AH...OO MAHAL KO PA RIN SIYA PERO WALA NA KAMI...

UNKNOWN NA AKO SA KANYA EVEN BEFORE NINYO AKO SIRAAN SA KANYA



SINISIRAAN NIYO AKO SA ARCHERS... O TAPOS?



MAY BALAK KAU SIRAAN AKO SA TAMARAWS...SIGE GO LANG... (PUPUTUKIN KAYO NG KAPATID KO, HAHAMPASIN KAYO NG INSAN
KO , SASAYAWAN KA NI SOULJA BOY NG CRANKDAT HANGGANG
MAMATAY KAU SA KATATAWA)



SISIRAAN NIYO PALANG AKO SA TIGERS...SIRA NA KAYO...WAHAHAHA JOKE LANG...DI AKO GANUN...
 
SIRAAN NIYO MAN AKO SA TIGERS...KAHIT HINDI KO CLOSE LAHAT NG MGA YAN AT FC LANG PAGKAKAKILALA KO SA IBA, MERON AT MERON PA RIN MAGTATANGGOL SA AKIN DIYAN.

AKALA NIYO LANG NA WALA PERO MERON MERON MERON :p



SERYOSO AKO. GAGU KAUNG LAHAT NA NANINIRA SA AKIN. DI LANG SA AKIN. SA AMIN, ACTUALLY.



GAGU!!!!!

MY PATHETIC LOVE LIFE...

Kanina sa bus... on my way home..habang nakikinig sa chill sounds ko, i remembered my super cute bestfriend na super miss ko na...si kuya piccoy. eh mali si piccoy pla. hehe...nagrewind lahat ng pinagsamahan namin nung college. Simula first day of classes till graduation day...pero hindi tungkol sa bestfriend ko ang blog na to...

It's about my pathetic lovelife...oo na...aminado akong pathetic ako.

Kasi nung naalala ko si pics naalala ko ang crush ko nung precom years namin.  Siyempre ayoko na alalahanin un pero di lang ako makakatulog kung di ko ilalabas to.  Wala lang, naalala ko lang un sabi ng classmate namin na muntikan na daw ako ligawan ng mokong na un. Ok naman daw ako, maalaga chuva...pero may mali...shet...di raw niya alam kung ano pero may mali daw sa akin.  siyempre nasaktan ako nung naging sila ng classmate namin na friend ko rin.  Pero ok lang, meant to be naman sila e. Aun, nung bday ng bestfriend ko andun din sila...actually, sumakay pa kami sa car niya. hahaha. E aun. friends naman kami.

Isa pa, sa SEP sa ateneo, pangalan niya ay INIGO...peste...inigo pa pangalan ng close friend ko ngaun.  I forgot san ko siya classmate pero un. Nagpapahiwatig siya at alam un ng  classmates namin. Pero natapos na at lahat ang SEP  wala! walang nangyari. kamusta naman siya.  ( VANY, IMEE, ngaun alam niyo na bat imburnal este imbyerna ako kay Chi-I kahit gwapo siya)

Eto pa, may isang friend kami, eto na, manliligaw na pero nagback out. Anu ba!! wala naman akong ginagawa e.  Natakot daw sa akin. Wala naman ako ginagawa e. At least eto alam niya kung bakit... natatakot daw siya sa akin kasi ang tapang ko daw.  Kung alam kong ako ang tama, di ako nagdadalawang isip na manapak ng tao. Sorry naman.  Di ko mapigilan e.  Buong grade school life ko ako ang binubully.


Oh well...kasalanan mo lahat to Piccoy Natividad! joke lang. Lab u bestfriend...Lam mo naman ikaw ang perslab ko sa ust e kahit TAENISTA este Atenista ka. hahaha.

Dadating nga ba?

this is for all the singles in the
haus... or f u r taken..., just pass dis to your single friends.... its
worth sharing (daw oh)... ahaha!!!

 

Ilang ulit na bang nangyari sa iyo
ito? Ngayon ang kasal ng pinsan mo. Heto ka ang ganda-ganda mo.

Naghanda ka talaga dahil minsan-minsan
lang ang okasyon sa pamilya nyo. Kadalasan sa mga lamay

na lang kayo nagkikita-kita so ngayong
kasal ng pinsan mo, gusto mo namang maging maganda at mapansin nila.



Aba, napansin ka nga. Ganito ang tanong ng lahat ng kaanak mo sa iyo..."O
ikaw kelan ka ikakasal?"

"Uy, ikaw na ang susunod ano?"


Parang gusto mo na sa susunod na
lamay sila naman ang sabihan mo ng "Ikaw, kelan ka susunod?"
 < hayup sa banat ah.



Huwag kang malungkot. Ito gusto nga kitang sumaya kaya sinulat ko ito.
Hindi ka dapat malungkot dahil

maraming posibleng dahilan bakit hindi
ka pa kinakasal o walang boypren  hanggang ngayon. Hayaan mo silang
mainip sa paghihintay.

Basta kung okay ka, okay ka.



Hayaan mo tulungan kita mag-isip kung bakit wala ka pa ring boypren o asawa
hanggang ngayon. Naisip ko na 'yan eh.

Ito ang sampung dahilan bakit wala
pa.





1. Kailangan mong mag-concentrate sa career. Hindi na uso ang mga
babaeng pambahay ngayon.

Kalimitan meron ng tinatawag na career.
Habang hindi ka pa tinatamaan ng palaso ni kupido,

hamo na munang mag-concentrate ka
sa trabaho mo. Kailangan mong ma-achieve ang full potential mo bago ka
mag-asawa,

kasi 'pag nag-asawa ka na, tanggapin
na natin, iba na ang mga prioridad mo sa buhay. Lagi ng mauuna ang pamilya.


Habang feel mo pang lumaban ng lumaban
sa rat race at umakyat ng umakyat sa corporate ladder,

huwag mong panghinayangan na wala
ka pang sariling pamilya.



my comment: Tae hindi rin
noh...Mas gugustuhin ko pa maglaughtrip sa training ng Tamaraw at Tiger
kesa sa trabaho ko ngaun.



2. Masyadong mataas ang standards mo. Ibaba mo kasi ng konti, baka
naman kahit si Rizal hindi ma-achieve yung

standards mo. Tandaan mo, si Rizal kahit na bayani medyo babaero din. Walang
taong perpekto. Kahit naman

ikaw di ba? Meron ka ding kapintasan? Baba mo ng konti, yung makatarungang
pamantayan lang. Baka naman naghahanap

ka ng Richard Gomez eh Pokwang na
Pokwang naman ang dating mo. Lumagay ka lang sa dapat mong kalagyan.

Baka naman naghahanap ka ng kasing
yaman ni Zobel eh ikaw naman eh pobre din lang naman. Huwag.

Huwag ganoon. Baka naman naghahanap
ka ng smart, na gwapong, mayaman. Ate, kung ganon ang hanap mo,

malamang tatandang dalaga ka na talaga.
Di lahat binibigay ni Lord. Di bale kung salat sa face value, babawi na
lang

siguro yung sa bait at sa talino.
Kung puro face value naman, at salat sa kaalaman or masama ang ugali, manalig
ka na

lang na baka pag pinakain mo ng gulay
tumalino or ito the best, lahat naman ng tao nagbabago. Pwede pa 'yan bumait.



my comment: uh di nman...mataas
lang as in sa height ang hanap ko. hahaha



3. Hindi ka lumalabas ng bahay. O baka lumalabas ka nga ng bahay,
sa opisina lang naman ang punta mo. Huwag ganon.

Sumama ka sa mga kaibigan mo, mag-mall
ka, magsimba ka, mag-outreach program ka. Huwag mong pansin ang sarili
mo

sa bahay dahil wala talagang makakapansin
sa iyo sa bahay. Mag-aral ka ng painting, voice lessons at Yoga. Imaginin
mo

kung magka-boyfriend ka na Yoga master?
or di kaya, chef. O di ba cool 'yun? Magliwaliw ka sa bookstores, sa coffee
shops,

at kung saan-saan pang mataong lugar.
Baka sakali mapansin ka doon.



my comment: true pero...errr
wala naman akong mapapala sa paggala gala at pag gimik e. naman, nuod na
lang tau ng basketball games. pwede rin gumimik basta tiger kasama ha uh
sama niyo na rin si King. :P



4. Baka naman sobrang tapang mo. Oo nga naman, baka naman  sobrang
masungit ka at natatakot sa iyo ang mga potential suitors

mo. Baka dapat kang maging approachable
ng konti. Baka masyadong maangas ang dating mo imbis na matuwa sa iyo matakot.
Baka sobrang

independent mo, at parang mabubuhay ka ng wala silang lahat. Minsan may
epekto rin 'yan. Baka sobrang talino ng dating mo

pakiramdam nila mababara lang sila
or baka 'pag pinadalhan ka ng love letter eh i-edit mo ng red ink pen.
Magkunwari ka kayang

t**** paminsan-minsan, tingin mo?



my comment: hoy friendly
kaya ako. sobrang friendly nasasabihan akong malandi, akala kasi nila nanlalandi
ako, e tlga naman pa cute ako makipagusap e.



5. Baka naman kasi losyang ka. Oo nga naman,mag-ayos ka paminsan-minsan
kaya lang kung pangit ka, pangit ka talaga.

No amount of make up can change that.
Pero at least pwede ma-enhance ng konti.



my comment: onga naman diba,
sino ba naman magkakagusto sau este sa akin kung sabog buhok ko diba? kamusta
naman un.



6. Baka naman hinahanapan pa ni Lord ng ribbon . Natatandaan ko
ang sabi ng kaibigan ko. Blessing daw

from the Lord ang mga  girlfriends/boyfriends.
O eh baka naman hinahanapan pa ni Lord ng magandang

ribbon yung regalo mo. Kasi baka daw
'pag hindi maganda ang packaging i-reject mo.



my comment: di naman ako
maarte sa regalo noh. basta matino ka lang kausap (certified YUAP family
members wavelength)  at HINDI KA MADALING MANIWALA SA MGA NANINIRA
SA AMIN.



7. Baka naman nagtitipid sa toll gate fee yung parasa iyo. Malay
mo kasi taga-Norte yung para sa iyo

eh mahal naman ang toll gate fee.
Baka nagtitipid dumaan sa walang toll kaya medyo natatagalan.



my comment: ay alam ko,
taga south siya...hahaha ay pwede na rin sa north...taga pampanga ba yan?



8. Baka naglakad yung para sa iyo. Parating na 'yon kaya lang mahal
ang gasolina so naglakad na lang

papunta sa iyo. Besides, walking is
good for the heart daw. Baka sa kakalakad naligaw na. Ito pa namang mga
lalaking ito,

hindi magtatanong kung hindi pakiramdam
nila naliligaw na sila.



my comment: kahit naman
maligaw siya kung ako tlga hanap niya mahahanap niya rin ako. diba?



9. Baka naman sadyang torpe lang yung para sa iyo. Baka naman nag-iipon
pa ng lakas ng loob o di kaya

nag-iisip pa ng magandang tiyempo.
Baka talagang hindi lang siya makapag-salita dahil sobrang mahiyain niya.


Baka naman dapat makiramdam ka rin
ng konti kasi talagang deadma ang dating nito.

Baka dapat tinatanong ng unti-unti.

my comment: o baka naman
sa sobrang bungisngis niya...hahaha...ayus magfiling daw ba? hahaha.

10. Baka naman talagang for single blessedness ka. Ipagdasal mo.
Baka naman kasi pinapagod mo ang sarili

mong kakaisip bakit you're still single
eh hindi naman kasi marriage ang plan ni Lord for you.

Paminsan-minsan magtanong ka kasi
sa Kanya baka naman ikaw ang naliligaw. Baka naman

ikaw ang nagtitipid. Baka naman kasi
ikaw ang torpe. Baka naman kasi ikaw ang problema.


my comment: jusko joke lang
un...natatawa lang ako sa mga reaction ng tao na tinatanong ko if bagay
sa akin magmadre

Gasgas man, pero sasabihin ko pa rin. Darating din Yun. Kung para sa iyo,para
sa iyo. Kahit iwasan mo para talaga sa iyo <sana naman trip ko un taong
un dba?