Don't you know I've tried and I've tried
To get you out my mind
But it don't get no better
As each day goes by
And I'm lost and confused
I've got nothin to lose
Hope to hear from you soon
P.S. I'm still not over you
Still not over you
Monday, June 30, 2008
Not Over
Good thing I don't have a sister. =))
Good thing I don't have a sister. Still I don't want this to happen to me.
sad : (
... but worth reading
Youngblood (Daily Inquirer)
He's getting married
TODAY, I will attend an execution: my own. I will watch it with both eyes open and I will not cry. I will not break down just because the man I have loved since forever will marry someone else. I will watch him promise himself to a woman who will never love him like I have. I will watch them bind themselves to a vow I should have taken.
I have loved Oliver almost all my life. I have known him since I saved his six-year-old hide from a bully named Ricardo who wanted to rid him of his two yellowed front teeth. I was five at the time, but having grown with five older brothers and a hellion of a sister, ''Totoy Cardo'' was a piece of cake.
Oliver was so overcome with embarrassment at having a girl to protect his scrawny neck that from that time on he made it a point to be the rescuer, not the rescued. As time passed, muscles filled out this lanky frame and those two front teeth began to sparkle. He combs his hair, and he takes a bath daily now. In short, he has become a fine specimen of manhood.
The best part is, he lived up to his promise: he became my self-appointed guardian (well, I don't know if that's the best or the worst part). He was just always there, sticking to me like glue. It used to drive me nuts that he never let me out of his sight.
When I was 12, I ran from the infirmary on my way home. I had found out in the most humiliating way that I had become a woman: there was a big red stain on the back portion of my skirt. The jeers and the taunts followed me through the school corridors. Oliver dashed after me and offered to accompany me home. I declined, of course. He seemed to understand my discomfiture and promised to drop later with the things left in school. When I reached home I was told that I needed to jump three times on the stairs (which I did) and to wash my face with my blood (which I didn't do). Oliver dropped by in the afternoon, sporting a black eye and a bruise on his arm. When I asked him what happened, he said he had walked into a closed door. I believed him. But a few days later, minus the dysmennorhea, I found out that Oliver got into fisticuffs because some guy made a disgusting remark about me.
Nobody had ever fought for me before that. And when you're 12 and discussing in class how King Arthur and fairest of them all, Lancelot, fought for Guinevere's love, you tend to get ideas. I loved Oliver then. When we were in high school and I found out that the school's heartthrob and one of my most ardent suitors, Richard, was involved with a bustier girl, it was to Oliver that I ran. When I didn't graduate as valedictorian and I got so drunk, it was Oliver who took me home. He didn't even mind that I barfed all over his dad's car (which he borrowed without permission).
When I decided to go to UP and he went to Ateneo, we celebrated by partying. When I lost my mom in a car accident, he took care of everything.
When my dad followed my mom less than a year later after a heart attack, he was there again. By this time he was an appendage of my life. He used to check out the guys I came to know. Nobody dared to get serious with me--not when Oliver had a black belt.I didn't know how to define our relationship. I didn't know what we were. We definitely were more than friends, better even than best friends. It was like we were a couple, but formally not one.
We did all the things that couple did like hang out and neck but always stopped when things got too hot. Since we never defined what we meant to each other we never said ''I love you'' or whatever serious couple told each other.
As a result, I remained a chaste princess while my prince caroused and sowed wild oats, but still had the energy to monitor my movements. I didn't mind.
After all, I was so sure we'd end up together. I always thought that in the end, it would be us. I loved him. I managed to convince myself that he loved me (what else could it be?). Little did I know that love doesn't conquer all, it only conquers the weak.
I didn't think he'd be so stupid as to get a girl pregnant on the same night they met at a party. I didn't think he'd be so stupid as to forget to use some form of contraception. After all, he had given me a lecture on safe sex. And I didn't think he'd be so stupid as to marry the girl. But maybe I forgot that after all he was a man, and men have been known to be stupid about these things. Their brain is located in a region other than between the ears.
What could I do? Kicking him in the groin and punching him in the eye seemed like a good idea then. Don't blame me; he was the one who enrolled me in a self-defense course. But I did not feel better. Seeing him bent over in pain only made me angrier. I wasted my life for this lousy excuse of a man? I could not believe it! I wanted nothing more than to run to him and beg him to wake me up from the stupid dream. I wanted him to take me some place where we didn't know anybody.
No pain, no memory, no humiliation. I wanted to just forget it ever happened but since I flunked in the School for Martyrs, I couldn't, for the life of me pretend, it didn't happen. I couldn't pretend he didn't hurt me. I couldn't pretend everything was fine and dandy and exactly the way it was before. We didn't talk for a month. For both of us who were practically inseparable, that was like an eternity. I ducked into corners whenever I would see him. I wouldn't take his calls. I wouldn't see him. And for some time hate was my reason for getting up in the morning, for breathing, for living.
Hate and I became good friends.
"God brings men into deep waters, not to drown them but to cleanse them," somebody once wrote. I didn't want to be cleansed. I just wanted to drown in pain and misery and utter desolation. I wanted to wallow in the dark and deep pit of despair. I know a thousand and one cliches that say this can be a blessing and that I should be thankful. But thankful is the last thing I'm feeling right now. I've always thought that there are three kinds of women: those who break, those who mend and those who are broken themselves.
Before this hit me, I assumed that I belonged to the first or second category. Now I know I'm in the third--so hurt and broken up inside. My grandmother used to say that there is nothing you can do about pain when it gives you a silly grin except grin right back. All I could manage was a wry smile, a killer headache and the worst hangover the day before his wedding.
Evidence of that is the disgusting sight of mashed potatoes and barbecue, thrown up not three meters away from where I was lying prostrate on the floor and the awful stench of cigarette on my hair. Frankly I don't want to go. I want to wallow in misery in my messy room, crying, retching and stinking, surrounded with Michael Learns to Rock (whose songs are dedicated to the broken-hearted) CDs. But I have to go and attend the wedding. I have to bathe and prepare and put on that atrocious peach (it's not even my color!) gown.
I'm not doing it for the groom, my one true friend and love, Oliver. Neither am I doing it for the bride, my younger sister, Sandra who needs me. I'm doing it for my unborn niece who has the great fortune of having me as her aunt. Call me stupid, but I've always known my place. If it isn't beside the man I was destined to marry, if it isn't behind my sister, who will take his name, wear his ring and bear him a child, then it must be with my niece, cradled close to my heart so that she will know both of our love.
Almost
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Thursday, June 19, 2008
Appreciation.Respect.Love
Who would have thought I would be friends with THEM? This was really unexpected.
Yeah. We're friends? Got a problem with that? Just mind your own business.
I used to insult THEM, laugh at THEM and worst, i hated THEM.
Can i laugh na? Hahahahaha. Yeah...I was SO WRONG. I was too judgemental and I hated them for the wrong reasons.
Anyway...since we "branched out", as my other friends would call it, we just realized the difference between being friends with them(the people who we are usually with) and THEM.
Appreciation: I remember one of my friends telling us that one of THEM told her "Sa inyo lang kami kumukuha ng lakas." And she added that we were the only ones who knew about that special day for them. Well not a very special day actually but one of those days that THEY needed support. No one, ok maybe few of THEIR friends knew about it too but we were the ones who had an all out support for them. Well how would the others know? Eh ang alam lang nila eh un major event. Oh well.
Sino ang kasama nila pag matalo sila? SIno ang kasama nila pag nananalo sila? This is not a "BUHAT BANGKO" situation. Eto ang totoo.
"Grabe suporta neto. Kahit training, kahit saan, andun sila. Bibigyan ko sila ng award" - Coach BF, 2008
Respect: They know we're not from the same crowd pero they accepted us for who we are and yun nga they appreciated our support for them. They know na may sarili kaming circle of friends na dapat din support and they respect that.
"Basta hindi UST ang kalaban." -RRC, 2008
Appreciation
+ Respect 
= Love
I just hope when the next season starts, hindi magkailangan ang mga teams na to dahil sa amin. Friends pa naman sila. AND MOST OF YOU ARE UNAWARE OF THAT.
Again, hindi kami nagbubuhat ng bangko...or nagaassume kami ng something. ask them if you wish.
Yun lang.
Sa friends naman namin. I think they were blinded by the attention they get from people na bago sa buhay nila. I hope not. Guys, andito lang kami. Kahit hindi niyo kami napapansin, although un iba pumapansin. Hinding hindi namin kayo papabayaan. Kahit pa itulak niyo kami papalayo dahil sa mga bago ninyong kilala, andito pa rin kami para sa inyo.
Eto nalang isipin ninyo. Nung nilalangaw
kayo, nasaan sila, nasaan kami? Ano ang naririnig ninyo sa kanila, sa amin? Pero nung dumating un luck
sa inyo, nasaan sila at nasaan kami? Yun lang. Nung halos isuka kayo ng sambayanang madla sino ang kasama niyo? I am not ranting. Period
We are not comparing. This is only a realization. This is the truth. Yun lang. Alam na.
The Effect of Coke Float and Brownies Part 5
How to Deal With Poisonous Friends
Poisonous friends can be difficult
to identify. They oftentimes appear loyal and kind, and may share many
common interests with those they poison. Here are some steps and tips which
will help anyone who thinks that they may be dealing with a poisonous friend.
Steps
1. Get
to know your true self. Grab a blank notebook and start writing. Who
do you want to be? What do you like about yourself? How do others see you?
What are your values? If you could change anything about yourself, what
would you change? Decide how you want to live your life. This does not
have to be a comprehensive evaluation, but it should include those things
which are most important to you.
2. Examine
your behavior when you are around your poisonous friend. Do you say
what you honestly think or feel? Do you put others down because you know
that he or she will enjoy it? Do you feel like you have to impress him
or her? Do you fight for his or her attention? Ask yourself questions like
these.
3. Keep
your core values in mind at all times. From now on, you will be true
to yourself and your values. Think before you speak or act. It might be
difficult to begin asserting your true self, but it will be worth it.
4. Surround
yourself with positive influences who share your core values and who
make you feel good about yourself. Don't be afraid to be apart from your
poisonous friend.
5. Assert
your independence a little at a time through your actions. Get a hobby.
Invite a new friend to a movie (do not flaunt this to your friend, though,
since that would make you a somewhat poisonous friend). Join a gym. Volunteer.
Do something that makes you a better person and makes you feel good about
yourself. Do something very un-poisonous and good that will set you apart
from your friend.
6. Distance
yourself from your friend. The key is to do this very slowly. Be discreet
and gradually reduce the time that you spend with this person.
7. Be
wary and protect yourself. Don't share personal information or secrets
with someone you do not absolutely trust. Be kind to everyone, but be choosy
when it comes to developing close friendships. This is not snobbery, this
is wisdom.
Tips
- If you are simply in a disagreement
with a friend, try to resolve it peacefully and preserve the friendship.
- An ideal time to "find yourself"
is on a vacation or a long weekend when you will be away from your friend.
Spending time with family is a fabulous way to get back in touch with your
true self!
- Continue to write in your notebook
to get to know yourself better and to stay in touch with your core values.
An empowering project that you can do in your notebook is to compile a
personal list of "rights." Example: "I have the right to
go fly fishing and not feel embarassed. I have the right to read a book
on Friday nights instead of going to the football game."
- Remember: the only person you can
change is yourself.
- If your family is not aware of your
friend's poisonous behavior, let them know somehow. Spouses, parents, and
siblings can be powerful allies and supporters.
- Be careful not to become poisonous
yourself. As hard as it is, you must be the bigger person and show kindness
to your friend even while distancing yourself from him or her. He or she
is probably dealing with many internal battles.
- Avoid the extremes of "passive"
and "aggressive" behavior. Only a tiny fraction of situations
truly require drastic measures.
- When you begin asserting your independence
by following your core values, your friend may be surprised or angered.
If he or she questions you, simply explain that you "have decided
not to steal cars anymore" or "that you really have always liked
fly fishing but hadn't gone in a long time."
You'll Need
- A blank notebook
The Effect of Coke Float and Brownies Part 6
How to Cope With Friends Who Turn Against You
It's hard when your friends turn against you. You won't know what to do at first, seeing as they may have been there for a very long period of your social life. Well, this how-to guide is here to help.
Steps
1. Give them freedom for sometime, try to be same good to them for some days then if nothing changes, try to make them understand how great times you both had, if not still leave a message or a mail everyday regarding a proverb or a saying about life and friendship and love and more which eventually would gain a soft heart for him again, but this would take time and you need to have patience and you need to be calm but if still nothing changes ignore them.
2. Ignore them and don't let a single tear come out your eyes
3. Don't do them any more favors.
4. Tell yourself that you're better than them; knowing that your real friends wouldn't have dumped you/treated you like that in the first place.
5. Don't withhold forgiveness. Did they take your money and never give it back? Did they lead you to a place to hang out, and then deserted you if you got in trouble, leaving you for dead? You can forgive things like that, no matter how mad or hurt you may be. You shouldn't put up with that type of treatment but forgiveness can help to heal the hurt. This doesn't mean you have to forget though.
6. Don't consider them your "buddies" or "friends" anymore. It may feel really bad, and you'll hate yourself, but don't resolve to hurting yourself for something they did to you.
7. Don't care if they are going to parties and inviting everybody else or not. If you get an invite, then that's fine, and you have a choice whether you really want to go or not. Otherwise, meditate and tune them all out.
8. Be the bigger person. If they are spreading rumors about you or spilling all of your secrets, don't retaliate by doing the same. Remain quiet and mature. They will be the ones looking like the idiots, not you.
Tips
- Don't let anybody get to you. This is really, really hard to master, but you can do it if you really have a strong desire to.
- Find somebody else. Make new friends with this simple tip:
- Say hello to one person each morning; one and only one for one week. Just say hello, and nothing else.
- Now, on the second week, add another person, but keep saying hello occasionally to the person when you see them.
- And so on.
- You'll gain acquaintances, if not friends, in this way, who might even become really good friends. Then, sit by them at lunch.
- Be careful. You don't want to flip everybody off just yet, unless they have done something really, really bad. And no, really really bad does not include she/he tripped you in the halls, she borrowed you nail polish and still hasn't returned it, or she borrowed your clothes and has forgotten to return them.
- Some friends can be stubborn, if you are having a fight, leave it off and say, "Well, we're obiously fighting over nothing, so I'm sorry, okay?" Then don't talk to her for a while and she should forget about it sooner or later.
When Bitches Ditch YOU. Get the hint
How to Know if Your Friends Are Trying to Ditch You
This will explain if your friends
are trying to ditch you.
Steps
1. Ask yourself, are they not wanting to hang out lately?
2. Examine their behavior. Do they say they will meet you somewhere and then don't
show up? Then make an excuse like "I forgot"?
3. Observe the way they act. Do they act weird when you come around, like they all
stop talking when you show up?
4. Notice if they are having parties or doing things without you, then talking about
it in front of you?
5. Pay attention, do they continuously go the other way when you come toward them?
6. Check the way they respond to you. Are they acting like they can't hear you when
you ask a question?
7. Note whether they want to spend time with them. Have you asked them to come
over and they always seem to be busy?
8. Watch their response online. Do they sign off when you get on the Internet?
Tips
- Don't be upset if these "friends"
don't want to hang out with you anymore. If they are going to ignore you
they aren't real friends.
- Don't worry if they start saying
things, and things get tough. If you know that you really want to be friends
with these people, then tell them how you feel, and see if they understand.
- This may not always be true, sometimes
they are really not ignoring you!
The Effect of Coke Float and Brownies Part 4
How to Deal With Backstabbing Friends
Dealing with friends who stab you
in the back is an extremely hard thing to do on your own.
Steps
1. Unleash
your unhappiness. If the friend(s) turned on you just a little while ago,
you may feel nausea, or maybe you'll feel like screaming or crying. It's
okay. The first step is to let it all out. Have a cry, write a letter then
tear it up, etc.
2. Figure
stuff out. What exactly did they do? What was your reaction? You can talk
to someone, a friends, a counsellor, etc.
3. Plan
your next steps. How will you interact with them?
It's best to stay away from them.
So, if you can, stay away. But, if she or he is in your class, that might
be hard. Especially, if you sit near them. You can talk to the teacher
or whoever is in charge. Try not to get the teacher really involved because
that can cause a bigger problem. Ask if you can be seated away from the
person.
4. Develop
coping strategies. What should you do if this person tries to talk to you?
First, you can try ignoring them. Or, you can give simple responses, like,
'Yeah', 'Okay' or 'No'. Don't sound upset, but don't sound really happy,
or he or she can tell you're faking.
5. Forgive
the person. You might be able to, you might not be able too. It all depends
on what they did. If you feel you can forgive this person, and try to patch
up the relationship, give it a shot. If it doesn't work and/or this person
repeats his or her actions, give up. They're not worth you friendship.
If you think this person can't be your friend again, it's best to just
leave him or her alone.
Tips
- Don't appear sad or mad. Don't look
down. Walk with your pride. This person betrayed you, and he or she should
be the one upset.
- Don't just look happy, be happy.
- If patching up your relationship doesn't work the first time, do not try again.
The Effect of Coke Float and Brownies Part 3
Howto Get a Guy to Like You
Do you want a guy to be crazy about you, the way you are about him? While
you can't make someone feel a certain way, you can definitely put your
best foot forward and give his feelings a chance to develop. Here are some
helpful hints on how to charm a guy, while still being yourself.
Steps
1. Like yourself. Whether
you're goofy, silly, crazy, quirky, smart, reserved, or whatever, how can
you expect a guy to like you if you don't like yourself? You've got to
show this person how awesome you are, but first you need to know
how awesome you are. Build
up your self confidence.
Now, this doesn't mean you have to be loud, boisterous, arrogant, chatty,
or forward. It just means getting to a place where you're comfortable in
your own skin. You can be secure,
sweet and humble
all at the same time. Guys like confident, interesting girls
who have their own lives.
The only guys who like insecure girls are the ones who are insecure themselves.
But who wants to be with a guy who wants a girl to feel bad
about herself? That's not healthy, and you deserve better.
2. Get
his attention.
He can't fancy you if he doesn't know you exist. If you haven't caught
his eye yet, then get
him to notice you. You've
got to walk before you run, right? Introduce
yourself somehow and make
conversation. Take an interest in who he is--what he likes, where he's
coming from, where he wants to go--and show him who you are, too. While
some guys don't like to talk that much, it's nearly impossible
for someone to like you if he doesn't get to know you--unless he "likes"
you for all the wrong reasons.
3.
Crack
a joke. Having
a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn't mean you should
be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Express
your sense of humor in your own way. Some people are witty and sarcastic,
others can tell hilarious stories, and many people just do quirky things
and poke fun at themselves. No matter what tickles your sense of humor,
it's much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh
with once in a while. If you don't find something to laugh about together,
then maybe you'll discover that you don't like him after all!
4. Do
things together. If he loves rock-climbing,
ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why
he's so into it. Have
an open mind. Find out
what you have in common, and include him in your world. If you love
a certain kind of music, ask him if he's ever listened to a particular
artist and offer to play a CD for him. Finding activities that you can
enjoy together can really lay down a bond and further his appreciation
of you.
5.
Have
patience. These
things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying to hurry
things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don't
be obsessive. Let things
progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes. Eventually he'll
tell you one way or another whether or not he's interested in reciprocating
your affection. And if he's not, don't hang around him like a lost puppy.
Sometimes you might be incompatible in ways that you don't see, and sometimes
a guy just isn't ready for a long term relationship. Don't take rejection
too personally. It happens. Not everyone in the world is going to like
you. Move on! There are other fish in the sea and if you followed the first
step, you know that you're a good catch.
Do you want a guy to be crazy about you, the way you are about him? While
you can't make someone feel a certain way, you can definitely put your
best foot forward and give his feelings a chance to develop. Here are some
helpful hints on how to charm a guy, while still being yourself.
Steps
1. Like yourself. Whether
you're goofy, silly, crazy, quirky, smart, reserved, or whatever, how can
you expect a guy to like you if you don't like yourself? You've got to
show this person how awesome you are, but first you need to know
how awesome you are. Build
up your self confidence.
Now, this doesn't mean you have to be loud, boisterous, arrogant, chatty,
or forward. It just means getting to a place where you're comfortable in
your own skin. You can be secure,
sweet and humble
all at the same time. Guys like confident, interesting girls
who have their own lives.
The only guys who like insecure girls are the ones who are insecure themselves.
But who wants to be with a guy who wants a girl to feel bad
about herself? That's not healthy, and you deserve better.
2. Get
his attention.
He can't fancy you if he doesn't know you exist. If you haven't caught
his eye yet, then get
him to notice you. You've
got to walk before you run, right? Introduce
yourself somehow and make
conversation. Take an interest in who he is--what he likes, where he's
coming from, where he wants to go--and show him who you are, too. While
some guys don't like to talk that much, it's nearly impossible
for someone to like you if he doesn't get to know you--unless he "likes"
you for all the wrong reasons.
3.
Crack
a joke. Having
a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn't mean you should
be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Express
your sense of humor in your own way. Some people are witty and sarcastic,
others can tell hilarious stories, and many people just do quirky things
and poke fun at themselves. No matter what tickles your sense of humor,
it's much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh
with once in a while. If you don't find something to laugh about together,
then maybe you'll discover that you don't like him after all!
4. Do
things together. If he loves rock-climbing,
ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why
he's so into it. Have
an open mind. Find out
what you have in common, and include him in your world. If you love
a certain kind of music, ask him if he's ever listened to a particular
artist and offer to play a CD for him. Finding activities that you can
enjoy together can really lay down a bond and further his appreciation
of you.
5.
Have
patience. These
things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying to hurry
things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don't
be obsessive. Let things
progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes. Eventually he'll
tell you one way or another whether or not he's interested in reciprocating
your affection. And if he's not, don't hang around him like a lost puppy.
Sometimes you might be incompatible in ways that you don't see, and sometimes
a guy just isn't ready for a long term relationship. Don't take rejection
too personally. It happens. Not everyone in the world is going to like
you. Move on! There are other fish in the sea and if you followed the first
step, you know that you're a good catch.
Tips
- Be an all-around great person. If
you focus on being a clean, motivated, kind,
and humorous individual, how can anyone resist? Some guys might be intimidated,
and they're too insecure to be worth your interest anyway. But it's only
a matter of time before a guy who can like you for who you really are will
come around and see that you're an awesome person to be around.
- Some people prefer being friends
first, others prefer to avoid the "just a friend" zone. Ideally,
you can be a little bit of both--a friend and a romantic interest.
- Keep in mind that you cannot control
what other people think and do. He may be the object of your interest,
but that does not create any obligation that you be his. Turn the situation
around. If there was some random guy who took an interest in you, is there
anything that he could do to make you like him? Probably not. You
will like him or not. You will find him attractive or not. You will find
him funny or not. All he can do is try to be the best person he can be,
and hope that you agree. The reverse is also true. Be the best person you
can be, and let it develop--or not--from there.
- Don't talk about your other prospective
guys with the guy you're interested in. It's just not good form, and it's
a good way to get rid of him.
- If there is no sign of him being
interested in you, that doesn't necessarily mean that he isn't interested.
He could just be shy, or be a little frightened, especially if he hasn't
dated anyone for a long time.
Warnings
- Don't play stupid mind games or
send mixed signals. This confuses the guy and has tons of potential for
embarrassment.
- If your friends aren't the most
mature, do not tell them about him. They will immediately start staring
at him and start giggling and chatting and so on. No matter what you say
to them, they will look at him. The worst case scenario is when your friends
go off on their own and start pestering the guy with a whole lot of questions
that all sound a lot like 'What do you think of Jessica?'. This will send
him packing.
- Trying too hard to "get"
a specific person to like you can be manipulative, something that no one
finds attractive or wants to be the object of.
- If these steps work a little too
well and he comes on too strong, let him know to take it easy and don't
do anything you feel uncomfortable with.
- Don't confuse kindness with him
liking you. Sometimes it's hard to tell the difference, but be attentive
and you'll figure it out.
- If he is dating someone else, he
is completely off limits. Respect him by not tempting him to get involved
with someone else.
The Effect of Coke Float and Brownies Part 2
How to Get a Guy to Notice You
If you want to know how to make
a guy fall in love with you,
then this is not the article for you. This is for those who have noticed
a guy and want him to notice her back (getting him to like you is a whole
other story). Luckily, getting a guy to notice you is easier because it
involves the use of basic social skills. You should be
honest, direct, pleasant,
and reasonable.
Steps
1. Be
sure that his attention is what you want, but you don't do you. Don't try
to get a guy to look your way just because you want attention and you want
to feel good about yourself. You don't want to lead someone on like
a puppy taken out for a walk. You could end up in a very awkward or
uncomfortable situation--see the Warnings below.
2. Be
yourself. Everyone
probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is
something she's not. Any guy who wants a fake kind of girl is not a guy
whose attention is worth having. Resist the temptation to put on a show
or to do anything that just isn't you just to get his attention.
3. Get
a new look. Don't change who you are you never want to do that because
you'll actually end up changing yourself, just try something different;if
he doesn't like you for who you are let him be. Try a new hairstyle, new
clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up once in a while, just
because variety's the spice of life, and it might help you catch his eye.
Try being that tough girl who is different from all the other okay looking
girls giving him the eyes, because beauty is common, but a good outlook
and a great energy are very rare.
4. Smile
and make eye contact. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. Unless
it really makes you feel artificial, learn how to shoot people a reassuring
smile,
letting them know that you're a happy and confident person who wants to
enjoy
life. The idea is to communicate
that you're inviting their company.
5. Flirt.
Do it as little or as much as you want, but remember that too much flirting
(especially with other guys) will likely get him to take notice, but perhaps
not in a good way. If he reacts and you don't think its real (he's just
doing it because you're there and you're a girl and he thinks he can do
better, let him know he can't). If he is faking it, call his bluff and
say something that makes him know you don't think he is 'all that'. For
example, if he comes close, pull a face and offer him gum. This will unbalance
his ego.
6. Hang
out with him often; you don't always want to be hanging around because
you might look like a bug always around and never going away. Start slowly
like a movie or party try not to make it so noticeable cause he might not
be interested.
7. Talk
to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have
in common. A good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question.
Listen
to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. You could even compliment
him or ask for help. A good opener is spray two different perfumes on each
wrist, then go up to him and ask him his favorite. This should get him
to talk to you. Also be friendly to his friends to help him feel more comfortable
around you. Some guys don't notice girls unless they talk to the guy.
8. Be
assertive.
You are the girl. You have the power. A lot of guys are shy and awkward
around girls they like, so don't hold back. Do what you want to do. Boys
like a powerful girl. Be decisive. Tell him what you want him to do, etc.--just
don't get too bossy!
9. Make
him feel special. There's got to be a reason that you want him to notice
you, and that's because you noticed him first. Let him know--subtly--that
you're interested in who he is, and that you sincerely want to get to know
him better.
10. Be
brave. Stand up for
who you are, and what you believe in. Ultimately, this will catch the attention
and respect of someone who is going to work well for you, even if it turns
out not to be this guy.
11. Don't
be a slob! It's a real turn-off for a guy when he notices a girl hasn't
brushed her hair or wears the same outfit every other day. Clothes, makeup,
and jewelry are the typical items many guys expect girls to wear. Even
if you don't fall within the typical expectations, just looking presentable
is always desirable--irrespective of who is the guy or girl.
Tips
- Be sure to invite him to every
party you have. Do not give him the first invite, and don't seem so hyper
and excited that would make him rather want to shoot himself than to come.
- Be sure to have gum, breath mints,
Listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly, especially
if you're hoping to start a conversation.
- If you have gum or mints or whatever
in your purse, try offering him a piece but give a best friend a piece
too, so it's not that obvious.
- It's always a good idea to keep
yourself well-groomed. While there are guys who get uncomfortable and intimidated
if you're all dolled up, it never hurts to stick to a few hygiene basics:
shower, brush
your teeth regularly,
use deodorant, keep your hair decent (not perfect, but decent), and take
care of your skin. Better
yet, stay healthy! Exercise and a mixture of good and bad food is better
than going on a no food diet. Exercise releases a chemical that makes you
feel good about yourself. If you feel good about yourself you are very
good at flirting. Chocolate releases another chemical the makes you feel
very happy, if you don't eat too much that is.
- Speak your mind. You're not a drone,
and any guy worth having will love
it. Just don't scare them by going into a spiel. It's a turn-on to see
a girl who loves her mind, not one who's bent on world domination. Likewise,
don't get caught up in complaining (about yourself, others, your circumstances).
Negativity pushes others away, and it lowers your self-esteem.
- If you cannot relate to any of his
interests, or even make a genuine effort to get into it, there will never
be ground for a lasting relationship anyway. Dump your intentions now.
- Being too straightforward might
mean leaving him bored. One way to get someone's attention is to make him
curious, and that means leaving him guessing to some degree.
- Laugh
at his jokes, even if they aren't funny. Then tell a couple to make him
laugh.
- When you are at a party, hang around
with some friends (and him) and you will all have a good time.
- Hang out with him and his friends
a lot.
- Go to the movies with him, and put
a bit of perfume behind your ears so that he can smell it and want to come
closer to you. Scary movies are better because you can curl up closer to
him more than other times and hold him when you get scared. Plan everything
you do BEFORE you do it. Dates where you go to a movie and sit through
it with nothing happening between you and then you both go home, suck.
He's going to enjoy that so much! NOT.
- Put lip BALM on your lips. This
way he will notice that they are slightly shinier and if you get close
he will be able to kiss
them. Guys really don't like gloss, they find it sticky and it truly doesn't
taste good. Fruit flavored balm is best. Or, if you must wear lip gloss,
a good kind is NYC Kiss Gloss. It is flavored with no sticky feeling.
- Be mysterious; keep him guessing.
Don't overdo this; it will make him frustrated if you do it too much.
- You have to be able to know how
to not be so serious! Be laid back, be fun!
- Never ask him out through a friend!
He`ll think you're a coward and he might just say no.
- Be
outgoing and make
small talk every once
in awhile. Just remember not to be nosy, though.
- Don`t ask him how you look! It will
just make him uncomfortable and he`ll think you're too self-absorbed for
him.
- Make sure you don't say anything
that you think might offend him.
- Find out what his favorite color
is -- subtly, don't just go up and ask him unless you're really confident.
Then slowly integrate it into your wardrobe. Don't go out and buy piles
of it, but if he really likes that color he'll notice the clothes and therefore
the person in them. Don't buy the clothes if you don't like the color.
Don't buy expensive things just to get noticed. You're still your own person.
Guys do not like it if you're fake!
- When you have come familiar perhaps
you could touch his arm or as I've found very handy just when you are walking
hold your hand slightly away from your body so he can hold it. Also you
can lean toward him when your sitting next to him, but not too close. You
could also use his shoulder as an armrest (but whatever you do don't lean
on it) or place your hand upon his shoulder very gently.
Warnings
- Be careful whose attention you're
getting, and what kind of attention you're earning. Being noticed by a
sleazy guy who'll pressure you to do things you don't want to do or a needy
guy who'll cling to you and make you feel limited is something you can
avoid by being wary.
- You can't get everyone to
notice you. Remember
that guys come and go, so do not stress yourself if things do not work
out in your favor.
- Being too obsessive can do the opposite
of what you want to achieve, pushing him farther away. If he just won't
become attracted to you, leave it alone. Do not push it, or things might
get ugly, and you'll earn a bad reputation.
- Don't show off too much flesh, especially
if he would always look! Keep him under suspense, in case he thinks you're
a push over.
- Realize that sometimes things might
always be better as friends, but if he wants to just be friends take the
opportunity, because thats better then nothing, who knows he might end
up liking you after a while.
- If you want him to be attracted
to you, make sure he's single first! You never want to be with man who
is taken. you know what they say, what goes around comes around.
- DON'T BE TOO DESPERATE!! Guys
hate it when girls try really, really hard to impress them, it just gets
out of hand and it's a real turn off for them.
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How to Know if a Guy Likes You
When a guy likes you he will make
pampam epal pansin to you
Be aware of touching. He might
put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens
to touch yours, or he may hug
you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you.
5. Watch
for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if
you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest
bands or artist for you to listen
to. Another example, if you play sports he may ask to play against you
just to show off that he's good at something you both like and then also
have a reason to give you compliments as well.
6. Notice
the way he treats you - does he playfully tease you, or call you names,
just to try and get your attention? It's natural for a guy to tease when
he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if
they aren't attracted to them. Also, keep in mind that some guys simply
will not tease you.
7. Check
for signs of nervousness Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting,
looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good
signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making
an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name,
does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
8. Smile
- a big smile
in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of
the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you
and to flash his smile in your direction then flash a quick smile back
to avoid blushing.
9. Pay
attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they
might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you,
or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your
presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that
suggests they know something that you don't? Maybe when they dare him in
games of truth and dare, they always dare him to do something to you. If
so, then there's a good chance that they know that he really does like
you.
10. Be
open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you - it can ruin the
situation if he hasn't got any opportunity to do so, for example if your
friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
11. Pay
attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often,
watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name
to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example,
if you say something, and he replies with "ha ha, nice, so-and-so"
it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with
"ha ha, nice." The second doesn't mean he doesn't like you, but
using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
12. Notice
his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions
and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he'll just forget
about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back
to the question until you answer, then he may like you - but if the topic
is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
13. Notice
these tell-tale signs:
Watch his body language! Whenever
you are in a group of people with the one guy you think likes you, look
at his shoulders - believe it or not, sub-consciously the guy will not
want you to think he is ignoring you so his shoulders will be pointing
at you, he may be talking to somebody else but his shoulders will be towards
your direction, and then when you go to talk, he will usually immediately
turn to you to listen.
15. Watch
his actions! If someone else is picking on you does he rush to defend
you or get revenge on that person? Either he thinks of you as a great friend
or he really likes you!
16. Where
he goes! If you see him go some places that you usually go often and
whenever you go there and he passes by or goes there that means he likes
you. Or whenever you go you see him or go across him for no reason. And
he will talk to you a lot in gym,lunch,music or many more!
17. Watch
his actions around other girls and see if he treats you differently. If
he always wants to talk to you or just likes to hang around you.
18. If
he starts a conversation, try to push it on. If he likes you, one thing
may lead to another, and he will ask you out.
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How to Know if a Guy Likes You
Probably the best way to know if
a guy likes you is to simply ask him, but we all know that can be a challenge.
So, here are a few clues to help you work out if he likes you as much as
you like him.
Steps
1. Examine
his body language.
If he likes you, you may see that he smiles at you, leans towards you and
also looks at you a lot.
2. Notice
his eye contact. If he likes you, he'll try to catch your eye and hold
it. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him (or vice versa).
If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second
longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then
there is something there.
- His pupils may dilate if he likes
you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as
acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
When a guy likes you he will make
pampam epal pansin to you
- "Listen
to what he's saying". If he likes you, and he's nervous, he'll probably
start talking about himself. Many times, guys feel the need to prove themselves-
especially if you talk about another guy in his company.
Be aware of touching. He might
put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens
to touch yours, or he may hug
you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you.
5. Watch
for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if
you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest
bands or artist for you to listen
to. Another example, if you play sports he may ask to play against you
just to show off that he's good at something you both like and then also
have a reason to give you compliments as well.
6. Notice
the way he treats you - does he playfully tease you, or call you names,
just to try and get your attention? It's natural for a guy to tease when
he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if
they aren't attracted to them. Also, keep in mind that some guys simply
will not tease you.
7. Check
for signs of nervousness Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting,
looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good
signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making
an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name,
does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
8. Smile
- a big smile
in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of
the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you
and to flash his smile in your direction then flash a quick smile back
to avoid blushing.
9. Pay
attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they
might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you,
or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your
presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that
suggests they know something that you don't? Maybe when they dare him in
games of truth and dare, they always dare him to do something to you. If
so, then there's a good chance that they know that he really does like
you.
10. Be
open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you - it can ruin the
situation if he hasn't got any opportunity to do so, for example if your
friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
11. Pay
attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often,
watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name
to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example,
if you say something, and he replies with "ha ha, nice, so-and-so"
it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with
"ha ha, nice." The second doesn't mean he doesn't like you, but
using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
12. Notice
his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions
and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he'll just forget
about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back
to the question until you answer, then he may like you - but if the topic
is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
13. Notice
these tell-tale signs:
- If he wants to talk to you all the
time,
- If you turn around and you catch
him looking at you,
- If he starts acting nicer when you're
around him,
- If he says "yes"
to all the things you ask him to do,
- If he treats you differently than
others,
- If he tries to sit next to you at
work, in class, at lunch, or play on a team with you during Gym/Recess
- If he looks at you a lot every time
you smile or laugh,
- If he acts immaturely around you,
like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
- If he seems to always want to hang
out with you,
- If he gets closer with a body
part, or if he tries to touch you (e.g. when you touch him he might touch
you back),
- If you catch him peeking at you
and he smiles,
- If he tries to make you laugh,
- If he tries to copy you,
- If he walks up to you out of the
blue and hugs you,
- If he tries to keep you in view
for as long as possible or tends to look around and stop when he finds
you,
- If he subtly looks at you but makes
it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
- If he constantly calls you and uses
an excuse -such as What was the homework?
- If he goes out of his way to talk
to you (e.g. if he goes to the other side of your school to talk to you
because he knows you have a class there),
- If you block him on instant messenger
and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you (note: this
may be considered a form of stalking)
- If you see him staring at something
by turning his head 90 degrees and when you look at him he smiles and turns
away, when this happens, check his pupils, he might have actually been
staring at you
- If he invites you to his birthday
party or any kind of party,
- If you flirt
with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically
flirts back, (but don't flirt with them just to find out if he likes you)
- If he talks to you and wants to
know how you're doing,
- If he is nicer or tries to talk
to your friends,
- If he asks about you to your friends
when you're not around,
- If he asks you to dance
with him at the dance.
- If he walks past you and tries to
look cool so you can glance at him
- If a guy tries to show you things
he got that are somewhat expensive (e.g. a cellphone) or he tries to impress
you,
- If you notice when he gets out of
class and starts to walk a little slower than usual, then he's trying to
give you the opportunity to talk to him!
- If he always talks to you there's
a great chance that he likes you.
- If he feels so awful letting you
down that he lies.
- If he would do anything to spend
more time talking to you (e.g. if he talks to/texts you until 2:30 in the
morning).
- If you realize that he ignores
you when your looking but when you look out of the corner of your eye,
he turns back around to look back at you,
- If he's talking to his friends and
nodding like he's paying attention but you realize he's not, he's actually
been staring at you the whole time!
- If he walks down the hallway (at
school) and he "accidentally" bumps into you/touches you/moves
your chair/pulls your hair etc.
- If he ignores you almost completely.
For example, when you call his name he does nothing, but when your friend
doess he pays attention. This is because he might be embarrassed or not
sure how to approach you. Be careful, though, he might ignore because he
just flat-out doesn't like you!
Watch his body language! Whenever
you are in a group of people with the one guy you think likes you, look
at his shoulders - believe it or not, sub-consciously the guy will not
want you to think he is ignoring you so his shoulders will be pointing
at you, he may be talking to somebody else but his shoulders will be towards
your direction, and then when you go to talk, he will usually immediately
turn to you to listen.
15. Watch
his actions! If someone else is picking on you does he rush to defend
you or get revenge on that person? Either he thinks of you as a great friend
or he really likes you!
16. Where
he goes! If you see him go some places that you usually go often and
whenever you go there and he passes by or goes there that means he likes
you. Or whenever you go you see him or go across him for no reason. And
he will talk to you a lot in gym,lunch,music or many more!
17. Watch
his actions around other girls and see if he treats you differently. If
he always wants to talk to you or just likes to hang around you.
18. If
he starts a conversation, try to push it on. If he likes you, one thing
may lead to another, and he will ask you out.
Tips
- Ask what type of girls he likes.
If he describes you in a way, then he likes you.
- Be
nice! If you are mean
to him or joke on him to be
funny and stuff like that
he gets annoyed. Boys like it when their ego is boosted, NOT lowered.
- If you flirt with another guy when
he can see you, look at him to see his emotions. You can tell a lot from
a guy if you try that and make sure he can see you. You do not want to
flirt with one of his friends. It will cause problems and might even ruin
your chances of even getting with the guy! (Don't flirt with the other
guy if you don't like him.)
- If he tries to talk to you, let
him.
- Always be
yourself! He might like
the real you more than the diva you try to be.
- Always let him be open to you.
- If he looks at you a lot, he may
be watching to see if you glance at him. Sometimes guys can be sneaky and
hide their face behind a book or something while looking at you so you
don't notice him looking at you.
- If you like him, Look at him
a lot. He will take that as a sign that you like him. If he likes you,
he will NOTICE that you look at him a lot and may approach you later.
- If you are hanging out with friends
and the guy lingers around, he may be trying to catch you alone. Tell your
friends to go on ahead, that you need to do something. If he likes you
and thinks you like him, he will approach you!
- If he looks at you and you catch
him looking at you, hold eye contact with him for a couple of seconds and
then look away.
- Dances are a great place to test
the waters! During a slow dance
he might ask you to dance. Pay attention while you're dancing - do you
look at each other, then smile
and look away? Does he seem happy to be dancing with you? This is a very
good sign! If you ask him to dance and he says yeah it is a good sign,
but be aware that some guys just say yes to any girl because they don't
want her to be offended.
- Blush when he is around once in
a while, see if he notices, or blushes back. If he blushes the first time,
he may like you, or may not. If he blushes a second time, he most definitely
likes you!
- If he seems comfortable talking
to you about other girls, he probably does not like you in "that way".
(Either that, or he is trying to make you jealous, which might mean that
he likes you but doesn't reflect too well on his character). Or he could
be trying to see if you like him!
- There could be a chance that if
he ignores you at times that he does like you, and is just intimidated
- perhaps defending himself thinking that you don't like him that
way, and thus if he rejects you first his ego remains intact.
- If his friends look at you then
that means that your crush was talking about you to his friends.
- If the guy you like seems to: Always
get in your way when you look at something, want to say something to you
but doesn't, blushes/smile when you look at him or says he "accidentally"
comes to your house then there's a pretty good chance he likes you.
- If the guy you like(or you think
likes you)is around a friend and the friend asks him if he likes you and
the guy says no, don't think that's so. He could just be saying no because
he wants to hide his true feelings for you! There's still hope!
Warnings
- If you look at him a lot, he might
look at you just to see if you're looking at him and not because he likes
you.
- If he starts to flirt with you when
he's already in a relationship and says he'll break
up with her for you, don't
buy it! Chances are, a random new girl will pop up and he'll do the same
with her that he did to you.
- Some guys may act a little like
they like you, too, but sometimes they don't. He may just act like that
if he knows that you like him [so he doesn't hurt your feelings] or maybe
he's trying to make another girl jealous. If you feel like your situation
is like this, just stop. Understand that he doesn't find you interesting.
There will be more guys!
- Watch out for the subtle guys. If
he asks you something that could potentially be a date but you're not really
sure, make sure it's clear before you agree to it. It can be uncomfortable
when one of you thinks you're on a date and one of you thinks you're not.
- One thing that you definitely need
to look out for: if he's just trying to get to know you better, or if he's
just using you, it might seem like he likes you, but sometimes he could
be messing around.
- It is a sign when he has a friend
talk to you all the time or if he get nervous when he talks to you for
the first time. You know what that means. He may try to act cool and over
do it, so try to accept everything he says, and if you don't understand
part of it, just ask him to explain in more detail while still appearing
interested.
- Don't try to convince yourself
that he doesn't like you, either. He could have some really deep feelings
for you, and if you try to convince yourself that he doesn't like you,
you could just end up hurting both yourself and him, and then you'll regret
not knowing what could have been.
- The wrong kind of boy might say
he likes you without meaning it; if this is the case, he probably wants
to see how far you would go with him, for any of those activities (whatever
they may be) themselves and for bragging rights among his friends.
- Always be careful for those guys
who like to tease your heart. Some may just pretend to flirt with you or
tell you they like you, just to hurt you. Some guys are just jerks, but
you'll always find someone who loves you just as much as you love
them. <3
- Make sure he's not the kind of guy
who has a different girlfriend every week. In other words, make sure
that he's not a player. You could get seriously hurt. Especially if
he is your first boyfriend.
- Don't have a friend go and ask him/her
if they like you. Thats really random and kind of weird. That will just
make the girl/guy think that you are desperate and that you are really
shy. TAKE CHARGE just talk to him/her and hopefully it will turn out for
the best(:
- If it's your best guy friend that
you're talking about here you might want to think about it or think what
it might do to your friendship if you guys started dating.
- See if the special things he does
for you is also common between him and other women. It might not be that
he's a "player," but just that he shows affection for friends
in a way that might seem special to you...but is just a way he appreciates
people in general.
- Sometimes, a guy will be too shy
to admit he likes you. Remember, actions speak louder than words. If he
says he doesn't like you, but his actions say otherwise, go with it. Flirt
back until he's comfortable.
- Don't have your friends come up
to us and ask us if we like you. A guy will usually want to tell you he
likes you himself, and if your friend asks if he likes you, he might say
no or deflect the question without saying no. It's nothing against you,
it's just that we don't want you to hear that fact from anybody except
us--it makes us feel (and look) weak.
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Saturday, June 14, 2008
Boys Boys Boys (from russel)
Name 10 people in the OPPOSITE SEX you can think of right off the top of your head. Don't read the questions underneath until you write the names of all 10 people. This is a lot funnier if you actually randomly list the names first. No cheating!
1. Piccoy
2. Japs
3. Bou
4. JL
5. Maui
6. Oping
7. Badong
8. Raprap
9. Khasim
10. King
1. How did you meet number 4? UST Growling Tigers
2. Do you have a crush on anyone up there?
---10, 9, 8,6 & 5
6 & 53. What would you do if you hadn't met number 1?
--- i don't know. hehehe. joke lang piccoy.
4. What would you do if 6 and 2 were going out?
--- japs...and oping...you mean, sa gimik? nah. knowing them...hindi mahilig gumimik yan esp #6
5. How did you meet number 8?
--- Imee, Vany and the FEU Tamaraws. He just greeted us while we were waiting for Ron Ryan Cabagnot. Hehe.
6. Is 1 one of your best friends?
--- HE IS MY BEST FRIEND. MY ONE AND ONLY GUY BESTFRIEND.
7. Whose number 1's best friend(s)?
--- Me and his atenean bestfriend. hehe
8. Have you ever dated number 10?
--- I'm wishing...kahit on my birthday lang.
--- I'm wishing...kahit on my birthday lang.
9. Do you miss number 3?
--- Di naman. hahaha. joke lang Bou. I miss the Tigers.
10. What do you think of number 6?
--- He's nice. And I LOVE HIM.
11. What do you think of number 7?
--- SNOB. Hahaha. Joke lang Badong. :)
--- SNOB. Hahaha. Joke lang Badong. :)
12. Who is # 3?
--- PBL True Gentleman Awardee...Dylan Simon Rosales Ababou
13. Have you ever been inside number 8's house?
--- Nope. Hahaha. Cguro maraming LOBO dun.
14. Do you love number 9?
--- Yes I do. I love Khasim kasi he loves us and he never fails to make me smile.
15. Ever been in the same bed as any of the numbers?
--- NAH. Uhm if you would accept the technicality that we were all in the same bed while hanging out in their room at JASHA.
16. What about no. 5?
---What about Maui V.? He is kuya Pat's cute bro.
17. Do you trust these people?
Yes I do. Got a problem with that? Hahaha
Yes I do. Got a problem with that? Hahaha
Friday, June 13, 2008
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